We need to do some basic things and spend more time with our kids. When I was growing up my Dad was in the military and I was very proud of that and his accomplishments. I did not know until later when it was my turn to be a parent that it really hit me what he had done for his country, his wife, and his sons.
Dad would come home from long missions and we would help him fix cars, and things around the house. It would take twice as long, but he taught us how to do things that we needed to know about running a house and taking care of a wife. He was involved in scouts and when he was gone for years at a time (to a kid it seemed that way) he would make up for it by our 30 day vacations that other families never took.
We communicated through voice
recorders and watched the news to see if his type of plane was shot down. We watched Jane Fonda tell me that my Dad was a murderer.
When it came down to our family times and Christmas, it was different. Mom would make hundreds of cookies for every man on the post that had to work, and Dad hand delivered to every man working on the
holiday. He would get home around midnight or later and we would then
celebrate out Christmas. Years later my brother and I were sitting in his back yard and talking about the delay in our Christmas
celebrations. He said that he understood why Dad did what he did for the men. They were missing
their families and then low and behold here comes the
commander handing them fresh cookies made by his wife. He was able to visit with each and every one
during the
Holiday.
Leaders are not those that just tell people what to do, they care about the entire picture and act accordingly.
We spent more time with our Dad even though he spent lots of time away. It is not how much time..... It is what you do with the time.
While watching and helping with my kids activities, it has been a blast working with lots of kids from many walks of life. It has allowed me to see what is going on
across social barriers and economic situations. The bottom line: I have two great kids and it has been work, but my wife and I have spent the time to help them get ready to productive members of society. This alone does not ensure they will be good kids. That is up to the kids themselves. It just seems that parents who spend quality time with their kids have a higher ratio of kids that can contribute to society.
The kids of today as a generation expect things handed to them, and when it does not happen some day...... It should be a very interesting dinner topic when they do not get what they want or know how to work. Well that is if anyone sits down to dinner.......Clark -
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